Nothing has helped, spanking or time-outs. Also, I had been lying about doing wrong far longer than I can remember getting spanked. Ever since I can remember my parents use to take off my clothes and my underwear and whip my bare bottom and vulva with a belt. And he often does this out of frustration. Giving your child a choice is an effective alternative to spanking. One may argue that if parents spank their kid, they must be calm about it, but hitting anything is always derived from anger or frustration.
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I strive to be a better human being because of her. A child like an adult will have a million factors in their lives surrounding them, genetically, environmentally, socially. Negotiation wasn't working offering an incentive for good behavior. So spanking, when used judiciously, appropriately, and in combination with other disciplinary techniques, can be a helpful part of training our children. My 7 yr old will not wear his underwear?
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The spanking was so painful that it was all she could do not to squirm and cry out with each swat. Good job on this article! I now have two sons 11 and 8. Now there is something to be said for fear - at the right time it can even save your life. This research further shows that children who have been spanked are more prone to low self-esteem, depression and accept lower paying jobs as adults. Consequences that are logically related to the behavior help teach children responsibility.
Zoe on March 17, at 4: And end up becoming school shooters and degenerates. I think the mistake you make is equating permissive parenting with positive parenting. Karisa on March 8, at 3: Any advice would help for sure Reply. Since when is spanking the same as beating the sht out of your children. Her sister had 3 kids who got no beatings and she had 7 grand kids before her oldest child was
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